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Underage and unprotected
- Thread starter Macy
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The thing you would want to do is to have a long talk about what's going on and always come off as someone who they can turn to for advice and to listen to problems they might have. Yelling and screaming will only make them want to rebel more and think of you as not someone to turn to for anything which will eventually lead to problems that you end up having to deal with in some fashion down the road.
Unprotected sex at any age is a dumb thing to do unless you are planning on having a child. I say driving home the point that sex is a serious matter and you have to be 100% sure that the person you are planning on having sex with is the right person and a serious relationship and not some fling. I'd say to ask the question Is the person I am thinking of having sex with someone I can imagine myself settling down with for the rest of my life. If you can't give a definite yes to this question then I doubt having sex will be a good idea.
People generally don't like hearing that they can't do something so it's best to show them what they can do instead of just saying they can't do this or that because they don't have the reasoning why they can't do this or that so they will do it anyways as they need to know in their mind why it's not good to do instead of just knowing that you said so.
Unprotected sex at any age is a dumb thing to do unless you are planning on having a child. I say driving home the point that sex is a serious matter and you have to be 100% sure that the person you are planning on having sex with is the right person and a serious relationship and not some fling. I'd say to ask the question Is the person I am thinking of having sex with someone I can imagine myself settling down with for the rest of my life. If you can't give a definite yes to this question then I doubt having sex will be a good idea.
People generally don't like hearing that they can't do something so it's best to show them what they can do instead of just saying they can't do this or that because they don't have the reasoning why they can't do this or that so they will do it anyways as they need to know in their mind why it's not good to do instead of just knowing that you said so.
Temerit said:
I wasn't trying to convince anyone, I was only telling everyone how I feel about it.
Although I guess yelling won't do anything, but I don't think I would even yell. I just think about what I do to my little brother and sister who terrorize me.
Well I would be a huge hypocrite if I said under-aged sex and no protection was completely wrong and people shouldn't do it.
However, if people aren't willing to take the time to protect themselves, they'll just have to deal with the consequences.
However, if people aren't willing to take the time to protect themselves, they'll just have to deal with the consequences.
I know that if I were to find out my son or daughter was engaging in sexual activity I'd be furious. I would speak to the parents of the other and ... I don't even know what I'd do to my own. I'll try my best to avoid this circumstance by educating my children on the dangers of underage sex, and why it is best to wait.
