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Want to tell them but cant

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Is there something that you would like to say to someone's face but are holding back for some reason?

To whom?

And what would you say?
 
Yes. My father. Things that would make him cease any and all contact with me instantaneously.
 
There’s a few people I’d like to tell my BF is my BF, but, to them, he’s just my roommate.

Sometimes I get the feeling that if I told them the truth they’d be like “I knew it all along!” …so I don’t know why I don’t just tell them the truth already? It’s pretty obvious at this point.

…but I feel like (at the same time) it’s nobody’s business …and they don’t need to know what goes on in my bedroom.

#Conflicted
 
There’s a few people I’d like to tell my BF is my BF, but, to them, he’s just my roommate.

Sometimes I get the feeling that if I told them the truth they’d be like “I knew it all along!” …so I don’t know why I don’t just tell them the truth already? It’s pretty obvious at this point.

…but I feel like (at the same time) it’s nobody’s business …and they don’t need to know what goes on in my bedroom.

#Conflicted
I know exactly how you feel! But you're right, it's no one's business but yours. Don't tell anyone you don't want to tell.
 
Part of me wants to talk to my grandmother since I haven't done so in over 12 years, but she's super religious and probably wouldn't accept me for who I am. If she couldn't accept me when I though I was a lesbian, there's no way she's going to accept me as her grandson. :\
 
Part of me wants to talk to my grandmother since I haven't done so in over 12 years, but she's super religious and probably wouldn't accept me for who I am. If she couldn't accept me when I though I was a lesbian, there's no way she's going to accept me as her grandson. :\

Maybe in the last 12 years she's become more understanding? Who knows, if not, then at least you got it off your chest :shrug:
 
Part of me wants to talk to my grandmother since I haven't done so in over 12 years, but she's super religious and probably wouldn't accept me for who I am. If she couldn't accept me when I though I was a lesbian, there's no way she's going to accept me as her grandson. :\
No matter what, we're here for you. :hug:
Maybe in the last 12 years she's become more understanding? Who knows, if not, then at least you got it off your chest :shrug:
It takes a lot for an older, bigoted person to change...I wouldn't bank on it.
 
Oh, plenty.
Not that I can't, I just don't have the energy to. I also feel it wouldn't serve any purpose because these people have their heads so far up their behinds.
 
Nothing I can really think of off the top of my head. I've either already spoken the words or just don't have the energy to.
 
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