You're right, no one is perfect. Stuff happens, but how everyone deals with what may or may not happen on their forum is completely different and I feel exactly how I commented above.Nobody is perfect, people have bad days / trauma in their personal lives they are dealing with / lapses in judgement, etc etc. Sometimes people say things they don't mean and they should be able to have a chance to do better. Talking things out usually works well. Giving people warnings and chances to improve also works well most of the time too.