Weââ¬â¢ve all been there ââ¬â the directions sounded so clear when we were told them. Every step of the journey seemed obvious, we thought we had understood the directions perfectly. And yet here we are miles from anywhere, after dark, in a field arguing about whether we should have gone left or right at the last turn, whether weââ¬â¢re going to have to sleep here now, and exactly whose fault it is.
The truth is we shouldnââ¬â¢t be too hard on ourselves. Psychologically speaking giving good directions is a particularly difficult task.
The reason we find it hard to give good directions is because of the curse of knowledge, a psychological quirk whereby, once we have learnt something, we find it hard to appreciate how the world looks to someone who doesn't know it yet. We donââ¬â¢t just want people to walk a mile in our shoes, we assume they already know the route. Once we know the way to a place we don't need directions, and descriptions like its the left about halfway along or the one with the little red door seem to make full and complete sense.
But if you've never been to a place before, you need more than a description of a place; you need an exact definition, or a precise formula for finding it. The curse of knowledge is the reason why, when I had to search for a friend's tent in a field, their advice of it's the blue one seemed perfectly sensible to them and was completely useless for me, as I stood there staring blankly at hundreds of blue tents.
Full article: http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20121106-why-we-are-so-bad-with-directions
The blue one? Sounds like a practical joke to me.
So, do you find it hard to give (good) directions?
Do you find it hard to follow directions sometimes?
Do you know people who give bad or good directions?