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Do you believe in divorce?
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I don't like it, but often there's no option and if one won't let go, then that's controlling psychopath behavior often due to jealousy.
And, of course, having kids makes things worse because it's hard on them.
My best advice is to think seriously before marriage.
And, of course, having kids makes things worse because it's hard on them.
My best advice is to think seriously before marriage.
I believe that your own happiness matters too. And wrt kids... Someone said to me once, "kids can better come FROM a broken family than be IN a broken family", and that hit deep. It was something that set me on my way to choose myself too. The other "final motivation" was... Is it so much better for kids to have no mother at all or one they see part-time? Because that was where I was at that point. Trying to end things about every month, because I felt so bad in the situation.
No one believes in or wants a divorce, but things happen. Just like when dating. Married couples who try and "stay together for the kids" are actually doing more harm. Do you really think it's better for the kid if mommy and daddy hate each other and fight 24/7? All so "we gotta be together for our kid!" As hard as it is, divorce is always the best course of action for everyone if it is determined the relationship has failed.
Yeah, in my family there is at least one case where the guy admitted to me he wanted divorce. The reason is because the wife is overbearing and abusive. The excuse she probably has is the stress of managing a family with kids.
Only if the partner is abusive.
I believe that people make mistakes. People rush around and get married, and then figure out that the person you've married isn't who you thought. I don't believe they should be forced to stay together anyway, It isn't a good thing, but it happens.
Yes, because it doesn't make sense for two people to suffer in silence just because they want to impress the society. If there is physical or emotional abuse in the marriage, I think it's always better to go their separate ways. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not prison.
No one believes or likes divorce. However, in many cases, you may have no other option. The rate of divorce have increased in my own country. People are becoming more and more self-centered and the society is ruining up things. It might be possible that people might think that you are at the fault for divorcing your partner.
My society frowns against divorce and I don't like divorce at all. But I am a pro divorce if there is any hint of abuse in the marriage. I don't wish divorce when I get married, and that is why I am taking my time to choose a wife.
I am a Christian and my religion strictly is against divorce. My culture treats divorced women as second class citizens. And the stress of having to start life again after you have already been married is not something that I like.
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