I can't stand it any longer!

[Princess]

Sounds like she has a couple of issues. Menopause and some sort of alcohol issue. The woman needs hormones.

After you move out, check into some groups like Al-Anon. It's not for alcoholics (which I don't think you are) but for people that have to deal with alcoholics. (spouses, grown children, family members)

Good luck.....

 

[Grailknight]

This whole situation just sucks to be in, obviously. It's good that you're looking for a place of your own, to get some distance between you and your mum.

However, until you're actually out of the house, it would be wisest to still do chores around the house for her when she asks you to. Outright refusing will only prove her point (in her head) and increase the tension between you both.



Hope everything works out well (and soon!) in the end.

PS That hug smily is really creepy.