Last Relationship

[Nebulous]

What was your last relationship like? How would you summarize it? What ended it?

Are you in a new relationship? Is this one better? If so, what makes it better?

 

[Jamie]

My last relationship lasted 5 years but in the end he ended up cheating on me..
No im single

 

[chanel]

Last relationship--- cop of all things. I just ended with both of is.

 

[JetWing34]

I've been single all of my life. I can't help but to say that being in a relationship can change my life entirely.

 

[chanel]

I was in one I guess you would call relationship. One I wasn't very interested in so it went no where.

 

[Nebulous]

My last one was tons of drama and she wasn't right for me.

My current relationship is awesome.
Definitely in love :inlove: and happy with this person.

 

[chanel]

Good for you. I'm just trying to decide, It gets tougher when you have known someone for so long. I think we were 13 and 14 if not younger when we met.

 

[Nebulous]

Thanks. I've known my partner for nearly 3 years and I already feel like we've known each other all our lives.

 

[chanel]

Thanks. I've known my partner for nearly 3 years and I already feel like we've known each other all our lives.

I'm afraid because I have known him so long. His brother and sister in law are probably my best friends, I was in the wedding at 19. It seems like I've known him forever. Him and his girlfried at the time were the first to welcome me home from Ireland when I was 15. I just don't know what to do with this one,

 

[Nebulous]

Thanks. I've known my partner for nearly 3 years and I already feel like we've known each other all our lives.

I'm afraid because I have known him so long. His brother and sister in law are probably my best friends, I was in the wedding at 19. It seems like I've known him forever. Him and his girlfried at the time were the first to welcome me home from Ireland when I was 15. I just don't know what to do with this one,

Well if you have a connection there, go for it. Do you get the feeling he likes you back?

 

[chanel]

Do you get the feeling he likes you back?

I know he does. I'm afraid to get involved with him. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Just me asking about it tells me no because if it were right I wouldn't have to ask.

 

[Bamboo]

My last relationship? Honestly it was good sex but the girl was a physco. Ended because I found out her true colours and I am glad we don't talk anymore, she even lost pretty much all her friends for acting like she did.

 

[Nebulous]

Do you get the feeling he likes you back?

I know he does. I'm afraid to get involved with him. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Just me asking about it tells me no because if it were right I wouldn't have to ask.

Could just be nerves. The fact that you're thinking about a possible relationship in the first place means you like him more than just a friend.

 

[chanel]

Do you get the feeling he likes you back?

I know he does. I'm afraid to get involved with him. I don't want to lose him as a friend. Just me asking about it tells me no because if it were right I wouldn't have to ask.

Could just be nerves. The fact that you're thinking about a possible relationship in the first place means you like him more than just a friend.

I don't know. Would I have even thought of it before I even knew how he felt? That's what is stopping me. I do care for him he's a good friend I just don't know if I should let it go to another level. I think my problem is, I've been madly in love or lust and it's not there for me or maybe I'm just expecting way to much.

 

[chanel]

and, and he wants to get a two bedroom house together. I don't think I can do that. We've known each other to long. I'm talking myself right out of it as you can see.

 

[Bea Sunny (:]

My last relationship ended up with a disaster (sorry but now I don't want to talk about it) and he cheated on me. I loved him so much that it took like a months to forgot him because we were classmates so I saw him almost every day.
Mu current relationship is perfect, we love and care for each other. We have been together for almost 4 years and a half and currently we live together in that city where I go to university.(we live like 90 km away from home)

 

[gaze-universe]

Analyzing, analyzing, analyzing, analyzing I like thinking some things through from different angles but there's a limit to analyzing things or trying to explain something over and over and over again. It gets really frustrating and tiring, especially when the topic/subject is on its own something that isn't set in stone but is continually developing and changing. She was also insecure about her looks, about the distance, about changes. It was very tiring. Lasted some four years and ended with me taking a piercing and her not being capable of accepting that change to how I looked. Obviously, it was just the last drop over everything else that had added up. We're both better off without each other.

I haven't dated since. I find being alone with my kitties, concentrating on my life is well satisfying and starting something with someone just doesn't have lasting appeal to me right now.

 

[Nebulous]

I'm talking myself right out of it as you can see.

Okay then, if he gives off the friend/brother vibe then I guess it's not gonna work. I guess I am just less indecisive when it comes to these things. When you know you know and you don't know.

 

[Phossix]

My last relationship didn't end well, if you could even call it a relationship. More of a hook-up, I guess. Knew her for seven years but never really talked, then eventually we hit of off about 2 months ago. She came up to mine last month, and it was great. She kept saying how much she liked me, we cuddled on the couch, made-out, and hinted at why I should date her, playfully. Wouldn't have changed it for the world.

Then the next day she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a relationship, and I got hurt. But I supported her as a friend. Then she had a fight with me, and removed all contact with me - although prior to this, she did tell me how she was in fact, seeing somebody. Low blow.

Been upset ever since.

 

[Jazzy]

My last relationship was very short lived. We almost made it to three months. He suddenly became very jealous, possessive and insecure. I mean to the point where I was constantly being grilled about where I was going and who I was going with. Then he started to 'tell me' who I could associate with and what I could or could not wear. Since I'm not an animal, I do NOT need a collar and leash put on me. I tried talking to him about it but to no avail. He just kept it up until I finally 'pulled the plug' on the relationship.

As I am typing this, I am very happily single!