True, they are very rare. Most guys want to fuck.
You should hear some of my meathead co-workers, they literally eat, sleep and breath sex. Every second of every day their brain is consumed with it. Its all they can think about, talk about, etc. If a hot chick jogger runs by they turn into drooling monkeys and usually spend the rest of the day talking about all the x-rated stuff they'd like to do to her. It gets old talking to them because I am not really like that (sure I have a sexual side but it doesn't consume my every waking moment of my existence).