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Do you hold grudges?

No I don't. Holding grudges make me more miserable. I just try to forgive.
I don't think everything needs to be forgiven. Forgiveness is for someone who genuinely made a mistake, realized it, and apologized and doesn't keep doing it. If someone is intentionally doing something, that isn't worthy of forgiveness in my opinion. I can simply distance myself from that person, limit my exposure , not waste any emotional energy on them, etc.
 
I'm still bearing grudges from the 1960s!
 
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