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Do you hold grudges?
- Thread starter Eden
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I don't think everything needs to be forgiven. Forgiveness is for someone who genuinely made a mistake, realized it, and apologized and doesn't keep doing it. If someone is intentionally doing something, that isn't worthy of forgiveness in my opinion. I can simply distance myself from that person, limit my exposure , not waste any emotional energy on them, etc.
Yes, if they're doing ugly shit to others, it'll eventually catch up to them. Time will tell.
My memory isn't good enough to hold a long term grudge.
I'll just remember that I can't trust you, but probably not why, or when, or any of the particulars.
I'll just remember that I can't trust you, but probably not why, or when, or any of the particulars.
I'm still bearing grudges from the 1960s!
I am the last person to hold a wrong doing against someone. I don't have that energy. But I always learn from every fight that happens between me and a person based on the cause of it. There are people that I can never bring close but I am not beefing them.
