Do you hold grudges?

[nomad]

No I don't. Holding grudges make me more miserable. I just try to forgive.

 

[Sinistra]

It depends on what has occurred. most of the time I let karma take its time to get the person back!

 

[fuzzems]

No I don't. Holding grudges make me more miserable. I just try to forgive.

I don't think everything needs to be forgiven. Forgiveness is for someone who genuinely made a mistake, realized it, and apologized and doesn't keep doing it. If someone is intentionally doing something, that isn't worthy of forgiveness in my opinion. I can simply distance myself from that person, limit my exposure , not waste any emotional energy on them, etc.

 

[MrDawn]

It depends on what has occurred. most of the time I let karma take its time to get the person back!

Yes, if they're doing ugly shit to others, it'll eventually catch up to them. Time will tell.

 

[DrLeftover]

My memory isn't good enough to hold a long term grudge.

I'll just remember that I can't trust you, but probably not why, or when, or any of the particulars.

 

[crafter]

Not so much holding a grudge, but losing a little trust in the person who wronged me.

 

[MamaFrankie]

I'm still bearing grudges from the 1960s!