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[PGen98]

For me its probably working and then having zero energy after work during the week. Then on the weekends I just want to chill and not be slaving away in the kitchen.

Yep, absolutely understandable! I'm with my mother all day making sure she's ok, and that includes making her meals and fetching her drinks to keep her hydrated. The last thing I want to do after feeding her is go back and make myself something. So I totally understand!

 

[Nebulous]

Yep, absolutely understandable! I'm with my mother all day making sure she's ok, and that includes making her meals and fetching her drinks to keep her hydrated. The last thing I want to do after feeding her is go back and make myself something. So I totally understand!

My brother was doing the same thing for my grandma, he would make her food and then go get fast food for himself.

Gonna go cut my hair
...take a shower and chill in front of the TV for a while. I'll probably pop back in on my phone in a bit

 

[PGen98]

My brother was doing the same thing for my grandma, he would make her food and then go get fast food for himself.

Understandable, totally. It's a drain, so you want to just do the easy things for yourself.

Gonna go cut my hair
...take a shower and chill in front of the TV for a while. I'll probably pop back in on my phone in a bit

Best of luck with the haircut!!

 

[Fait]

Sorry to hear that!
Hope things get better for your hands!

Happy birthday to your kitten.



Whats up @PGen98? How are you?



Well there are billions of people over 30 on the planet, we don't need to attract the younger generation to forums. I'm fine posting with adults



TikTok is an odd place. I scroll videos on there sometimes but after a while I fail to see the point and close it. Lol



Opposite viewpoint here, I'd be more inclined to think people are bots if they didn't use avatars. Just seeing a bunch of usernames is boring. Avatars give people a way to express themselves and I can identify users faster and more easily by their avatar.

Don't get me started on the lip syncing ones.

 

[Nebulous]

Best of luck with the haircut!!

thanks?

Don't get me started on the lip syncing ones.

Those are the worst!

 

[PGen98]

thanks?

I take it the lawnmower didn't win

 

[Nebulous]

I take it the lawnmower didn't win

Not this time!

 

[PGen98]

Not this time!

Very nice! Last time I cut my own hair it was an absolute disaster, lol.

 

[Nebulous]

Very nice! Last time I cut my own hair it was an absolute disaster, lol.

Not me, been doing it once a week for many many years.

 

[Mercedes01]

Sorry to hear that!
Hope things get better for your hands!

Happy birthday to your kitten.



Whats up @PGen98? How are you?



Well there are billions of people over 30 on the planet, we don't need to attract the younger generation to forums. I'm fine posting with adults



TikTok is an odd place. I scroll videos on there sometimes but after a while I fail to see the point and close it. Lol



Opposite viewpoint here, I'd be more inclined to think people are bots if they didn't use avatars. Just seeing a bunch of usernames is boring. Avatars give people a way to express themselves and I can identify users faster and more easily by their avatar.

 

[PGen98]

Not me, been doing it once a week for many many years.

Once a week? Wow, that's a pretty regular schedule! I like to let mine grow out...well...now I'm only letting it grow out, lol, but before that, when I had to pretend to be something else, I'd let it grow out before I had to chop it off again.

 

[Nebulous]

@Mercedes01 I think your reply didn't get posted. Could you try again?

Once a week? Wow, that's a pretty regular schedule! I like to let mine grow out...well...now I'm only letting it grow out, lol, but before that, when I had to pretend to be something else, I'd let it grow out before I had to chop it off again.

I don't really like having long hair, it bothers me.

 

[PGen98]

@Mercedes01 I think your reply didn't get posted. Could you try again?



I don't really like having long hair, it bothers me.

It used to bother me, too, but I've come to like it...granted, I suppose my motivations for growing it out are just a little bit different, lol

 

[Nebulous]

It used to bother me, too, but I've come to like it...granted, I suppose my motivations for growing it out are just a little bit different, lol

Lots of women have short hair.

 

[Mercedes01]

I tried to Quote Nebulous to no avail

We will have to agree to disagree in regard to avatar's

Layout is way too dark as well..Just too busy with usernames lit up in different colours

I had a post removed to elsewhere said to myself I will pop in but I won't be a prolific poster as I am other forums

In saying the above you have made the majority very happy

Job well done!~

 

[PGen98]

Lots of women have short hair.

Oh without question they do, but when you go from living a lie to living your true and authentic life...you want to over-indulge in that life, if that makes sense. You go all in at first, then you find yourself and mellow out

 

[Nebulous]

I tried to Quote Nebulous to no avail

We will have to agree to disagree in regard to avatar's

Layout is way too dark as well..Just too busy with usernames lit up in different colours

I had a post removed to elsewhere said to myself I will pop in but I won't be a prolific poster as I am other forums

In saying the above you have made the majority very happy

Job well done!~

Thank you for the feedback!

If you don't like dark themes, we have 3 light themes available.

Here's a tutorial on how to use them: https://offtopix.com/threads/light-dark-theme-selection-customization.36768/

 

[Nebulous]

Oh without question they do, but when you go from living a lie to living your true and authentic life...you want to over-indulge in that life, if that makes sense. You go all in at first, then you find yourself and mellow out

Makes sense. I suppose everyone has their own definition of a "traditional woman." I also associate long hair with women, but I have met a few guys with long hair over the years. Just like I've met a few women with short hair.

 

[PGen98]

Makes sense. I suppose everyone has their own definition of a "traditional woman." I also associate long hair with women, but I have met a few guys with long hair over the years. Just like I've met a few women with short hair.

Absolutely, hair is hair and you should wear it however you like it. When I finally got the chance to be me I wanted to grow it out because I'd never had it properly long, and as you said, long hair I typically associate with women, as well, in spite of the fact there are lots of men with long hair. I wanted to use it as an expression of myself, and so I've just been growing it out to feel a little more "myself." I'll probably go back to shorter hair eventually, because I prefer it, but at the moment I need it longer, it helps.

 

[Nebulous]

Absolutely, hair is hair and you should wear it however you like it. When I finally got the chance to be me I wanted to grow it out because I'd never had it properly long, and as you said, long hair I typically associate with women, as well, in spite of the fact there are lots of men with long hair. I wanted to use it as an expression of myself, and so I've just been growing it out to feel a little more "myself." I'll probably go back to shorter hair eventually, because I prefer it, but at the moment I need it longer, it helps.

Whatever works for you!

Does it make you hotter though? Its like a million degrees outside right now.