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First date?
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Fell in love, by accident.
A man I'd met asked me out on a date for the following Saturday night, for a reunion with high school buddies. When he picked me up, I asked him how he wanted me to act (yanno, since taking a date to a reunion is a pretty big deal). He (kiddingly) answered, "I want you to act like you're in love with me." I thought he was serious, so I did. I hung on his every word, gazed lovingly into his eyes, touched his arm whenever he spoke, etc.
Somewhere in the middle of my *act*, he decided he liked it, and started *acting* like he was in love, too. I responded to his *act*, and started really falling in love. Our *act* lasted 5 whole years.
Actually, it ended up being the BEST thing I ever did...but I wouldn't recommend it to others. It does, however, add credibility to the theory that if you want to be/have something, "Act as if, and it will happen."
A man I'd met asked me out on a date for the following Saturday night, for a reunion with high school buddies. When he picked me up, I asked him how he wanted me to act (yanno, since taking a date to a reunion is a pretty big deal). He (kiddingly) answered, "I want you to act like you're in love with me." I thought he was serious, so I did. I hung on his every word, gazed lovingly into his eyes, touched his arm whenever he spoke, etc.
Somewhere in the middle of my *act*, he decided he liked it, and started *acting* like he was in love, too. I responded to his *act*, and started really falling in love. Our *act* lasted 5 whole years.
Actually, it ended up being the BEST thing I ever did...but I wouldn't recommend it to others. It does, however, add credibility to the theory that if you want to be/have something, "Act as if, and it will happen."
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Well.The worst thing I did when asking a girl I liked out for the first time was that I didn't know her. That was my biggest mistake. I couldn't find anything to talk about with her. The date was a failure. We didn't hold hands, didn't kiss, and there was hardly any conversation but awkward silence. I should have known better, but hey, live and learn, right?
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