Go on & vent

[riseabovethis]

Presently we're on good terms. It's taken a long time for us to get there.

On this particular subject, no I haven't asked her. But we did talk about why we conflicted so much and that's because she was upset with what I did when I was a little kid to a young adult. She said I would always embarrass her because I was always in trouble at school and I never did as I was told. She said it took her a long time to get over a lot of the things I did. She's not lying, but I wish she would have gone about it differently.

Unless your mom read a book about parenting she was taught how to be a parent the same way all of us are, from our parents. She was doing what she saw as the right way to deal with you and probably never considered reading a book. Reading a book might not of helped.

 

[MrDawn]

I think a lot of ppl can be troublesome in their teens though. Not a legit reason to disown anyone IMO.

I was disowned and disinherited by my father because I hated and didn't get along with his wife.

To this day as a 37 year old man, I felt how she treated me was mentally and emotionally abusive and he was too blind to see it. She would bitch at me no matter what I did. It was if she believed I should be seen and not heard. I always had to walk on egg shells when I was around her. I rarely ever mouthed off at her. I so badly wanted to at times because she would say things that would hit a nerve. But no, out of respect for my father it was "yes ma'am or no ma'am" and I kissed her ass on a daily basis. Did what I was told and put up with her crap.

Until one day I was sick of her shit. I felt bullied by her and my hate for her became over whelming. Like for example I would be talking to my father and then she would interrupt because one of my opinions offended her and I'd get lectured over it by her. I'd just sit there and give her the dirtiest look. I so badly wanted to punch her in the face. She never gave me any alone time with my father. Not one moment. She was always mouthing off at me, criticizing me, taunting me, and dishing out punishments over the tiniest things. She was worse when she was drinking which she did late at night when I was in bed.

She'd want to come into my room and drag my dad along and bitch at me all the way through midnight. Pretty much saying I needed to do good in school and be like my father because I wasn't amounting to anything. They started doing this when I was 13. (which my mother's lawyer agreed was abusive)

I was so sick of her shit that I ran to my mother during one of her visitations and I begged to come home and I told her everything that bitch was saying and doing. I couldn't take it anymore. I'm guessing the reason my father disowned me was when I told my mother's lawyer my stories about her and accused her of abuse during the custody battle. I was 15 then, I'm 37 years old now and he still won't talk to me. I reached out to him when I was in my early 20's and he told me to have a nice life and hung up on me. Either what happened in the past was just an excuse for him to not want me in his life or he doesn't realize that I was a kid and he was the adult. I always did good in school when I lived with him and tried to do everything he told me to do. My beef was never with him. It was with his bitch wife and I feel like I got railed over her. I felt she ran me off. She didn't want me living with them. She did everything in her power to sabotage my relationship with him and she succeeded.

 

[riseabovethis]

Now I'm confused which isn't surprising since I'm old. Are both posts about some psychobitch your dad married?

 

[MrDawn]

Now I'm confused which isn't surprising since I'm old. Are both posts about some psychobitch your dad married?

No, the first post is about my real mother. They got divorced over 30 years ago. He left my mother for his 4th wife whom I cannot stand which my other post was about.

 

[~ True Legend ~]

I was disowned and disinherited by my father because I hated and didn't get along with his wife.

To this day as a 37 year old man, I felt how she treated me was mentally and emotionally abusive and he was too blind to see it. She would bitch at me no matter what I did. It was if she believed I should be seen and not heard. I always had to walk on egg shells when I was around her. I rarely ever mouthed off at her. I so badly wanted to at times because she would say things that would hit a nerve. But no, out of respect for my father it was "yes ma'am or no ma'am" and I kissed her ass on a daily basis. Did what I was told and put up with her crap.

Until one day I was sick of her shit. I felt bullied by her and my hate for her became over whelming. Like for example I would be talking to my father and then she would interrupt because one of my opinions offended her and I'd get lectured over it by her. I'd just sit there and give her the dirtiest look. I so badly wanted to punch her in the face. She never gave me any alone time with my father. Not one moment. She was always mouthing off at me, criticizing me, taunting me, and dishing out punishments over the tiniest things. She was worse when she was drinking which she did late at night when I was in bed.

She'd want to come into my room and drag my dad along and bitch at me all the way through midnight. Pretty much saying I needed to do good in school and be like my father because I wasn't amounting to anything. They started doing this when I was 13. (which my mother's lawyer agreed was abusive)

I was so sick of her shit that I ran to my mother during one of her visitations and I begged to come home and I told her everything that bitch was saying and doing. I couldn't take it anymore. I'm guessing the reason my father disowned me was when I told my mother's lawyer my stories about her and accused her of abuse during the custody battle. I was 15 then, I'm 37 years old now and he still won't talk to me. I reached out to him when I was in my early 20's and he told me to have a nice life and hung up on me. Either what happened in the past was just an excuse for him to not want me in his life or he doesn't realize that I was a kid and he was the adult. I always did good in school when I lived with him and tried to do everything he told me to do. My beef was never with him. It was with his bitch wife and I feel like I got railed over her. I felt she ran me off. She didn't want me living with them. She did everything in her power to sabotage my relationship with him and she succeeded.

I’ve made an observation that whenever a child complains about being bullied or harassed by an adult, they’re seen as the problem child. Despicable attitude!

 

[MrDawn]

I’ve made an observation that whenever a child complains about being bullied or harassed by an adult, they’re seen as the problem child. Despicable attitude!

Pretty much what a lot of people assume. I'm glad my mother and my grandparents believed me. They got me out his house in a heart beat.

 

[Dollhouse]

A long time ago, my mother used to do this all of the time and I found it to be very upsetting. It'd be the same round of questions that I had answered the previous day before and it was annoying. I felt like I was talking to someone who had dementia. I quit talking to my mom for almost a year because I felt like she didn't care and it was a waste of my time.

My mom is the same, she doesn't care about my feelings at all. Talking to her is a waste of time and it drains my energy every time. I'm thinking about not talking to my mom but I can't do it yet, I'll have to find my own place first. I think it's going to be a lot healthier for me mentally.

 

[~ True Legend ~]

@Wessel @Hollhouse I’m so sorry for what you guys went through

 

[Dollhouse]

I miss living by myself.

 

[Crys]

Narcissists.

 

[EllieCat]

Wish I didn’t have to go to school. I hate being yelled at

 

[ElegantAura]

Why it is very hard to type with my mobile. Already my writing is bad as it is , but when i write using my phone get worse and i make a lot of mistakes ... most spelling mistakes are because i can not see what i type and also it is hard to see the forums with the phone .
Every time i type i end up to a different page and have to go back and if i add a smiley i can not continue to type until i delete the smiley
ok the bad grammar i don't blame my phone that's on me but a lot of the spellings are not

I feel very bad and angry with myself so planning to post less

 

[passenger]

Why it is very hard to type with my mobile. Already my writing is bad as it is , but when i write using my phone get worse and i make a lot of mistakes ... most spelling mistakes are because i can not see what i type and also it is hard to see the forums with the phone .
Every time i type i end up to a different page and have to go back and if i add a smiley i can not continue to type until i delete the smiley
ok the bad grammar i don't blame my phone that's on me but a lot of the spellings are not

I feel very bad and angry with myself so planning to post less

Typing is SO much easier with a full keyboard after about age 25!

Also, sounds like maybe you're ready for some "readers"?

 

[EllieCat]

Why are the forums so inactive since they released a Discord server. I’m not even allowed to go there. Just come here instead.

 

[MrDawn]

Why are the forums so inactive since they released a Discord server. I’m not even allowed to go there. Just come here instead.

The OT Discord Server is no more active than the OT forum is. This place is normally very active. Just not as much during November and December due to the upcoming holidays.

 

[EllieCat]

The OT Discord Server is no more active than the OT forum is. This place is normally very active. Just not as much during November and December due to the upcoming holidays.

Ahhh ok.

 

[ElegantAura]

I had the most worse burger for dinner . Ok from that place i was not expecting something wow but this was bad.

I think this topic i will visit a lot this days just very angry this past few day

 

[EllieCat]

I have
i ready to do tomorrow!

 

[riseabovethis]

Except on forums I haven't interacted socially with a woman in over five years so I'm off to Walmart to buy a canoe.

 

[EllieCat]

Why do people always call me a member! (Joking)