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I'd ask what her name is but I don't want to doxx anyone. Are you guys going to get married soon?My g/f wants my last name. A lot of unfortunate stigma with hers....![]()
Most women don't know that we do NOT have to take their last name.
You go girl!I'm never getting married but for the purpose of this question, I would not take his name because I don't see why I should submerge my identity just to become Mrs Him and because I don't care for tradition.
I can't speak for other women lol There are so many traditions out there that we keep doing, both men & women. Now, I tend to buck tradition. If I do something, it's because I wanted to, not because society dictated it.Even nowadays?
Nice! Thats a great way to live. Screw society!I can't speak for other women lol There are so many traditions out there that we keep doing, both men & women. Now, I tend to buck tradition. If I do something, it's because I wanted to, not because society dictated it.
Same with my last name. I have my biological father's last name and he and that entire side of the family not only disowned me but dis-inherited me as well just because a custody battle and me wanting to live with my mother when I was 15 and not getting along with his wife. I think it also had something to do with me telling my mother's lawyer about his drinking problem so he'd lose the whole case. Judges tend to be harsh towards parents who have addiction problems.My g/f wants my last name. A lot of unfortunate stigma with hers....![]()
I think you can change your legal name to whatever you like (within reasonSame with my last name. I have my biological father's last name and he and that entire side of the family not only disowned me but dis-inherited me as well just because a custody battle and me wanting to live with my mother when I was 15 and not getting along with his wife. I think it also had something to do with me telling my mother's lawyer about his drinking problem so he'd lose the whole case. Judges tend to be harsh towards parents who have addiction problems.
I think you can change your legal name to whatever you like (within reason) so long as it's not for criminal reasons.
For a fee, of course.![]()
It dont matter as your SSN# would be attached to your new name hehehe. lol Nice try though lol*changes name for criminal reasons*
Me too.I personally like tradition as its what I'm used to,