Still living with parents?

[Nebulous]

I have lived alone for 10 years since the death of my mother. I wasn't allowed to leave home and was still living there when I was 45. I was little more than an unpaid slave.

Did you live with her until you were 45 by choice or you had no other options?

I didn't have the best home life growing up.

Me neither, my childhood was rough! I survived it and became a better person for it!

When my mom had me move in with my grandparents. My grandfather became my life coach. He helped me get a job and to start being responsible and taking accountability. My grandfather taught me a lot. Aside from the hard moments, It's been a good run so far. Once I got my own place, I didn't want to ever live with my parents again. You get a lot of freedoms when you don't live under someone.

Glad that your grandparents were there for you and helped you gain independence.

 

[MamaFrankie]

I had no choice, Nebulous.

 

[Nebulous]

I had no choice, Nebulous.

Sorry to hear that

 

[Merciless]

Yes, I still live with my dad he’s been a great support of my business also my relationships and sadly I’ll be moving out this year.

 

[Nebulous]

Yes, I still live with my dad he’s been a great support of my business also my relationships and sadly I’ll be moving out this year.

By choice?

 

[Merciless]

By choice?

Yes, as I’m getting married me and my partner are moving in together and he’s been a great support with that also but helping with furniture and putting towards a deposit for us, he’s an amazing man.

 

[Nebulous]

Yes, as I’m getting married me and my partner are moving in together and he’s been a great support with that also but helping with furniture and putting towards a deposit for us, he’s an amazing man.

Are you going to be renting?

 

[Merciless]

Are you going to be renting?

Hopefully buying but we may start by renting.

 

[Nebulous]

Hopefully buying but we may start by renting.

How much are houses in your area?

 

[Merciless]

How much are houses in your area?

Around £100,000-£150,000 for a decent 3 bedroom. But I’d rather move from the area, it’s pretty rough.

 

[Nebulous]

Around £100,000-£150,000 for a decent 3 bedroom. But I’d rather move from the area, it’s pretty rough.

Wow houses are cheap in your area! Where I live you could probably buy a mobile home/trailer for that price. Not a real house though.

 

[Merciless]

Wow houses are cheap in your area! Where I live you could probably buy a mobile home/trailer for that price. Not a real house though.

Yeah because it’s an absolute shit hole lol

 

[Nebulous]

Yeah because it’s an absolute shit hole lol

So where are you going to relocate to?

 

[Merciless]

So where are you going to relocate to?

I’m not sure yet, somewhere in the countryside would be nice.

 

[Nebulous]

I’m not sure yet, somewhere in the countryside would be nice.

Do you want to live on a large piece of land?

 

[Merciless]

Do you want to live on a large piece of land?

I would love too!

 

[Nebulous]

I would love too!

Its a lot of work! I don't live on a very large piece of land but I have a relatively large backyard compared to other houses in my city. I can never keep up with the yard work.

 

[Merciless]

Its a lot of work! I don't live on a very large piece of land but I have a relatively large backyard compared to other houses in my city. I can never keep up with the yard work.

It would be a lot of work but I quite enjoy being out and doing YARD work

 

[Nebulous]

It would be a lot of work but I quite enjoy being out and doing YARD work

Not me, I do it for a living and then come home and have to do tons more. Its never ending.

 

[Merciless]

Not me, I do it for a living and then come home and have to do tons more. Its never ending.

Oh hell nah, I couldn’t do it for a living