Ever been Stalked?

[Naiwen]

I have been online and irl/offline. It's a real nightmare and hell to deathl with. I've thought of the man in my group therapy as a friend, but he has understood otherwise. He has mistaken me as his girlfriend. He's what? 70-80 years old, has great-grandkids and 2 ex-wives. He wouldn't stop calling and when I haven't called back, he's left a very angry message in my cellphone. I've reported him to the police and have had a restraining order on him. And he's kissed and touched me without my consent too. Just last night, I've been stalked and sexually harassed online by 2 people, 1 by a demoted admin from another forum who has fallen head over heals in love with me and one on Instagram (he is my neighbours husband, must be around 40-50 and has kids with his wife), he wouldn't stop making new accounts and adding me. he 1st person has resorted to spamming my forum and telling my online how bad a person I am and to stay away from me. I have since reported them both one to the internet police in his area, and the other to Instagram for sexual harassment and stalking. How about you? Ever been stalked by secret admirers personally and etc?

 

[Smiley]

Alas, I am of no consequence to anyone to be worth stalking.

 

[Nebulous]

I have been online and irl/offline. It's a real nightmare and hell to deathl with. I've thought of the man in my group therapy as a friend, but he has understood otherwise. He has mistaken me as his girlfriend. He's what? 70-80 years old, has great-grandkids and 2 ex-wives. He wouldn't stop calling and when I haven't called back, he's left a very angry message in my cellphone. I've reported him to the police and have had a restraining order on him. And he's kissed and touched me without my consent too. Just last night, I've been stalked and sexually harassed online by 2 people, 1 by a demoted admin from another forum who has fallen head over heals in love with me and one on Instagram (he is my neighbours husband, must be around 40-50 and has kids with his wife), he wouldn't stop making new accounts and adding me. he 1st person has resorted to spamming my forum and telling my online how bad a person I am and to stay away from me. I have since reported them both one to the internet police in his area, and the other to Instagram for sexual harassment and stalking.

Sounds creepy!! Glad thats over with for you.

How about you? Ever been stalked by secret admirers personally and etc?

Yes, I had a girlfriend years ago who was always stalking me. She was a little crazy. I used to work at a store and she would pretend to go shopping there while I was working just to watch me. Pushing around a cart with nothing in it. She would be in a different car in the parking lot of my work so she could watch who I went to lunch with (usually she'd get a friend to take her in their car or whatever). She would blow up my phone if I didn't answer immediately. One time she was outside my house calling me and I told her I wasn't home and she broke into my garage to see if my car was in there. Needless to say I ended things with her. After the break up I got a new job and I moved houses so she didn't know where to find me, but she was social media stalking me for a while. Eventually she gave up.

 

[Smiley]

Ah. So that's why you changed teams. So she'd lose interest in you. Also:

 

[Nebulous]

Ah. So that's why you changed teams. So she'd lose interest in you.

Yeah right, if she knew about that she'd probably take it as a challenge to convert me back.

 

[Smiley]

Damn. You dawg. No human female has ever shown even a faintest interest in me, and you let that one get away.

 

[Nebulous]

Damn. You dawg. No human female has ever shown even a faintest interest in me, and you let that one get away.

I've let about 10 (maybe more, memory is a bit fuzzy) of those get away, you can have my leftovers if you want. Much happier with the person I am with now.

 

[Smiley]

Oh, great. Rub it in, like salt into the wound.

 

[Nebulous]

Oh, great. Rub it in, like salt into the wound.

Get on the dating apps and go hook up with one
Or go see a prostitute.

 

[Smiley]

 

[Nebulous]

Suit yourself, like you said in another thread. You only live once. Might as well try it out.

 

[Smiley]

I choose not to.

 

[Nebulous]

I choose not to.

RIP your wiener.

 

[Smiley]

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